Spoilt 12-year-old, Leah, demands leaving friend’s NYC 12th birthday trip early, after claiming she's "bored", Leah's mom demands host mother drives hour away to drop her home, host mother refuses: ‘If I left with Leah, we’d miss the show’

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    ASBECKE "Leah complained again and said she wanted to go home" 0 1F82 SKECHERS S பப்
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    AITA for not bringing my daughter’s friend home and making her parents come get her?

    My daughter and I live about an hour outside NYC. Since she was a baby, I've taken her there most weekends.
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    As she got older, she occasionally brought friends. They always know the rules: bring a bag with things for the train, carry your own stuff, stick together, expect lots of walking, and have fun.
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    Phones are fine, but I encourage screen- free activities. I always speak to parents beforehand and emphasize the walking, we sometimes walk 45 minutes or more.
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    For her 12th birthday last weekend, she wanted to go to the city with friends, visit favorite spots, have dinner, and maybe see a show.
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    My mom helped pay for tickets and joined us. My daughter invited three girls: two longtime friends who know the routine and a new friend, "Leah." I called Leah's mom, explained the rules, warned about the walking, and suggested Leah bring something for the train since the signal is bad.
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    Leah's mom said she was excited. My daughter also explained expectations. On the train, Leah brought only her phone, got bored when the signal cut out, refused to chat or play games with the others, and complained.
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    When we arrived, she immediately asked for a cab. My daughter reminded her we walk. As we browsed shops, Leah kept whining and asking for a cab.
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    I stayed patient, offered water and snack breaks, and even suggested the subway to be nice, but she refused when she learned what it was.
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    A few hours in, we stopped for dinner at a place with options for everyone. Leah complained again and said she wanted to go home.
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    I pulled her aside to check if she was sick or upset; she just said it was boring.
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    I told her we'd be there a few more hours for the show, but if she wanted to leave, she could call her mom.
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    Leah called, and her mom asked me to bring her back. Even if my mom or I left with Leah and took a train back after we dropped her off, we'd miss the show, and my daughter wanted both of us there.
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    I explained we wouldn't head back until after the show. Leah's mom didn't want to pay for a train ticket or drive.
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    She eventually sent Leah's dad, who picked her up before the show. Leah stayed crabby through dinner.
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    Afterward, Leah's mom trashed me to the other moms, but they backed me up, saying they wouldn't expect me to cut the trip short unless a child was sick or hurt (which I would do).
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    Now Leah's mom won't let her hang out with my daughter. I can't help wondering if I should've just sucked it up and taken her home.
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    raucus_one NTA. Count your blessings that you don't have to deal with her or her nasty mother anymore.
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    EuropeSusan NTA. if she can't ride the train without an adult, her parents have to pick her up. and i have the impression that her mom knew she would be whiny about walking and would get bored easily.
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    Hey-Just-Saying "Now Leah's mom won't let her hang out with my daughter." I would count that as a win! NTA.
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    Mundane-Run6179 NTA. The realities and expectations of the trip were thoroughly explained and both Leah and her mom acted like entitled brats
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    swoosie 75 NTA. Why on earth would you miss the show and plans with your daughter because their whiny baby is bored? 2 choices, their daughter stays and stops complaining or her
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    parents come get her. Ridiculous that they would expect you to. Them not allowing their daughter to be around is a blessing. You made the plans and expectations clear. Their princess will not be included in the future.

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